Psychotherapy for Athletes

Psychotherapy is a space for healing, self-discovery, and growth. It is a confidential space where you can explore your experiences, understand yourself more deeply, and create meaningful change in your life. Psychotherapy is evidence-based, blending proven techniques with compassion and creativity to support your unique journey toward meaningful change.

The mental side of sport is about more than performance. It's about confidence, pressure, identity, relationships, setbacks, and everything else that makes you human. Therapy can help you work through what's getting in the way and build the mental and emotional skills to show up fully in sport and life. I provide evidence-based psychotherapy for athletes, performers, and driven people who want to feel better, understand themselves more deeply, and pursue what matters most.

Athlete Q&A

What can therapy help me with?

Athletes start and continue therapy for many reasons. Here are some topics that often come up for athletes in therapy:

  • Athletic Identity

    Athletic Identity In and Out of Sport · Balancing Different Parts of Self · Identity Changes · Labels · Life Beyond Achievement

  • Recovery & Stress

    Stress Management · Overwhelm · Burnout · Relaxation · Recovery · Rest · Sleep · Energy Management · Pacing in Sport

  • Perfectionism

    High or Unrealistic Expectations · Self-Criticism · Fear of Failure · Procrastination · People-Pleasing · Difficulty Resting · All-or-nothing thinking · Feeling Satisfied · Difficulty Celebrating Success · Fear of Making Mistakes

  • Confidence & Self-Belief

    Self-Efficacy · Self-Doubt · Self-Worth · Self-Trust · Fear of Trying · Comparing Self to Past-Self, Goal-Self, or Others · Rebuilding Confidence · Relationship with Self

  • Emotional Regulation

    Emotion Regulation · Preventive Self-Care · Arousal Regulation · Coping with Anxiety · Coping with Difficult Emotions · Recognizing, Naming, Feeling Emotions · Tolerating Discomfort · Grounding

  • Coaches & Authority

    Athlete-Coach Relationships · Communication · Receiving Feedback · Receiving Criticism · Trust · Conflict · Boundaries · Fear of Disappointing a Coach · Advocating for Yourself

  • Teammates & Team Dynamics

    Teamwork · Belonging · Team Dynamics · Cliques · Comparison · Conflict · Finding Your Place · Cohesion

  • Motivation & Enjoyment

    Losing & Finding Motivation · Meaning · Commitment · Consistency · Getting Unstuck · Rediscovering Enjoyment · Discipline · Seasons of Sport (and life!)

  • Sport & Performance

    Confidence · Performance Anxiety · Focus · Mental Blocks · Competition · Performance Dips · Consistency · Performance Expectations

  • Pressure & Fears

    Pressure · Fear of Mistakes · Fear of Failure · Fear of Disappointing Others · External expectations · Self-Imposed Pressure · Pressure to Succeed · Feeling Behind

  • Focus & Attention

    Attentional control · Distraction · Concentration · Arousal Control · Presence · Focus · Shifting Attention · Pre-Performance Focus · Flow Under Pressure

  • Injury

    Coping with Injury · Fear of Reinjury · Frustration · Loss of Ability · Patience · Trusting your Body · Adjusting Expectations · Injury-Related Anxiety

  • Thoughts & Self-Talk

    Self-talk · Negative/Realistic/Positive Thinking · Self-Evaluation · Self-Monitoring · Reframing · Worry · Comparison · Compassion

  • Achievement & High Performance

    Pressure to Succeed · Change in Ability · Fear of Wasted Potential · Feeling Behind · Difficulty Slowing Down · Overworking · Proving yourself · Balancing Ambition and Wellbeing

  • Self-Worth

    Self-Esteem · Self-Worth · Sense of Self · Feeling Valuable Beyond Achievement · Shame · Self-Compassion · Comparison

  • Identity & Authenticity

    Identity Exploration · Authenticity · Values · Purpose · Self-Understanding · Personal Growth · Connection with Wants and Needs · Feeling Different

  • Neurodivergence

    Self-Understanding · ADHD · Autism · Dyslexia · Masking · Executive Functioning · Sensory Needs · Navigating New or Challenging Environments · Sensory needs · Attention · Overstimulation · Neurodivergent Burnout · Accommodations

  • Neurodivergent Athletes

    Understanding How Neurodivergence Affects Your Sport Experience · Exploring Strategies · Accessible Training and Competition Environments · Sensory Needs · Communication · Routines · Advocating Needs

  • 2SLGBTQIA+

    Identity Exploration · Coming out · Belonging · Family dynamics · Minority Stress · Discrimination · Safety · Finding Community · Navigating Sport Culture

  • Relationships

    Relationships · Communication · Boundaries · Trust · Asking for Support · Feeling Understood · People-Pleasing · Relationship Changes

  • Family Dynamics

    Parent Expectations & Pressure · Family Dynamics · Boundaries · Support · Feeling Understood · Navigating Different Expectations

  • Return to Sport

    Returning After Injury · Fears · Rebuilding Confidence · Feeling Behind · Physical Limitations · Patience · Trusting your Body · Returning to Competition

  • Goal Setting

    Planning · Prioritizing · Commitment · Creating Short/Medium/Long-Term Goals · Evaluating Goals · Changing Goals · Values-Based Goals · Sustainable Goals

  • Decision-Making

    Decision-Making · Problem-Solving · Uncertainty · Taking Risks · Exploring Wants and Needs · Choosing Between Competing Priorities · Trusting Your Decisions

  • Adaptability

    Flexibility · Adapting to Change · Trying New Approaches · Letting Go of Control · Handling Uncertainty · Getting Unstuck · Finding Different Ways Forward

  • Routines & Structure

    Routine-Building · Planning · Time Management · Preparation · Pre-Performance Routines · Recovery Routines · Organization · Balancing Commitments

  • Resilience & Setbacks

    Resilience · Coping with Setbacks · Perseverance · Learning from Mistakes · Bouncing Back · Coping with Disappointment · Adapting · Asking for Help

  • Selection & Competition

    Tryouts · Making a Team · Being Cut · Selection · Losing your Spot · Competition anxiety · Comparing Yourself to Competitors · Performance Anxiety

  • Progress & Skills

    Learning New Skills · Relearning Skills · Losing a Skill · Skill Plateaus · Feeling Stuck · Being a Beginner · Progress · Comparing to Past Self · Patience with Learning · Growth Mindset

  • Risk & Fear

    Fear of Failure, Mistakes, Judgment, Injury, Trying · Taking Risks

  • Sport Transitions

    Changing Teams · Changing Coaches · Moving Up a Level · Starting a New Sport · Changing Goals · Moving to a New Gym/Team · Returning to Sport · Leaving Sport as an Athlete & Future Planning

  • Ending a Sport Career

    Retirement · Quitting · Grieving · Guilt · Losing your Role · Losing your Community · Identity Exploration Out of Sport · Figuring Out What Comes Next

  • Life After Sport

    Identity After Sport · Finding New Goals · Building Life Outside Sport · Purpose · Relationships Outside Sport · Hobbies · School/Work · Rediscovering Yourself

  • Balancing Sport & Life

    School · Work · Family · Friendships · Dating · Hobbies · Rest · Time Management · Competing Priorities

  • Leadership

    Leadership · Team Culture · Responsibility · Communication · Confidence · Decision-Making · Conflict · Supporting Teammates

  • Creativity

    Flexible Thinking · Problem-Solving · Experimenting · Finding New Approaches · Getting unstuck · Playing · Reconnecting with enjoyment

  • Difficult Experiences

    Sport-Related Trauma · Bullying · Harassment · Abuse · Discrimination · Loss · Grief · Feeling Unsafe · Rebuilding Trust

  • Self-Awareness

    Self-Awareness · Understanding your Patterns · Recognizing Triggers · Identifying Needs · Understanding Emotions · Recognizing Strengths · Recognizing Limits · Understanding What Helps

  • Advocacy & Accommodations

    Asking for Help · Communicating Needs · Asking for Accommodations · Advocating for Yourself · Setting Boundaries · Speaking Up · Navigating System

Why might an athlete go to therapy?

Being an athlete can be incredibly rewarding and incredibly demanding. The pressure to perform, expectations you place on yourself, injuries, competition, and the desire to keep improving can affect much more than what happens on the field, court, stage, or in the gym.

Therapy can be a place to work through anxiety, perfectionism, burnout, confidence, identity, relationships, motivation, and major transitions. You don't need to be in crisis to come to therapy. Sometimes you simply know that something isn't working the way you want it to, and you're ready to understand why and receive support to work through it.

You might be wondering:

  • What is my athletic identity?

  • What happens when my performance starts to affect how I see myself?

  • What happens when being an athlete becomes part of how I measure my worth?

  • What happens when sport becomes more than just something I do?

  • What do I actually want, underneath all the expectations?

  • Can I accept where I am while still wanting to grow?

In therapy, we can give space to get curious about those questions and explore them with compassion, openness, and understanding.

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